Erin Buhr, a licensed practical nurse at Edgewood Vista
in Grand Island, has noticed something about the moments
when families caring for loved ones with Alzheimer's or
dementia start to knock on the doors of care facilities.
"It seems like there's a certain window of time when
a family member can care for someone and it either works
or it doesn't," she said. "The people who take
tours are on that line between it working and it not working."
A good majority of families care for their loved ones
in their homes, and many professionals feel that is actually
best for most patients. However, when that line is crossed
and a loved one can no longer provide care, what are the
options? In Grand Island, the Grand Island Veterans Home
and Edgewood Vista care for both men and women with Alzheimer's
disease and dementia. The veterans home is open only to
veterans and the spouses of veterans. Edgewood Vista is
a 14-bed private-care facility.
Other care and assisted-living facilities do care for
people with Alzheimer's up to a certain stage, but when
a person can no longer bathe or feed himself or herself
or use the rest room without aid, that's usually when more
care is needed, said Karen Noel, director of the Alzheimer's
Association of the Great Plains.
"That's usually the cutoff line," she said.
"Different places do it different ways, but those later
stages require a different level of care."
Cost is also a large issue for many families, as a good
number of care facilities cost $80 to $120 a day to care
for a loved one.
As for philosophies of care, it can often vary from place
to place. Faye Roebuck, administrator of Edgewood Vista,
said her facility attempts to make the environment of care
as much like home as possible. Edgewood Vista is outfitted
with a kitchen where residents can help cook, the facility
provides private and semi-private rooms where personal effects
are welcome, and it provides nearly constant activity.
Other philosophies depend on the facility, so Noel said
it's best for those caring for a loved one to tour a potential
care facility and pay attention to its philosophy. Usually,
it takes an Alzheimer's patient around a month to adjust
to new surroundings.
For those who want to care for a loved one at home, many
options are available for information, support and respite.
The Alzheimer's Association of the Great Plains has an online
resource at www.alzgreatplains.org
that can help someone get started.
Noel said the online community is a great new point for
those caring for loved ones, but the Alzheimer's Association
is constantly lobbying for more community-based services
such as adult day care, respite services and other resources
to receive state and federal funding.
"We want to see more money go into community services,"
she said. "In the rural areas, especially, the resources
are not there."
How to care for someone at home depends completely on the
individual situation. However, as the disease progresses,
Noel said, cooking and finding one's way around the house
can be increasingly problematic and require creative ways
to help a loved one cope with his or her condition.